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Jul 07, 2022
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originally came from children's worries and pains when they left home and separated from their caregivers, and experienced various physical symptoms such as not being able to sleep, nightmares, headaches, etc. In other words, they would be afraid of being alone, Helpless. However, as they get older, such worries diminish as children know that their caring parents are always there, becoming a rock of trust and safety with which to endure the unknown and outward adventures. If a child who was neglected in childhood lacks a relationship of trust and a secure belonging, this lack will turn into "adult separation anxiety" when he grows up. Unlike childhood, adult unease manifests in feelings of "unbearable loneliness" and escapes this feeling in various ways, such as substance abuse drugs, alcohol addiction, or "over dependence" in relationships. Interpersonal manifestations of separation anxiety include a lack of boundaries, a desire for affirmation, deference to others, and tension, self-criticism (thinking about Illustrator Art Work whether they have done something wrong that makes the other person angry and disrespectful) when the other person shows indifference and distance, and then Imagining the possibility of being abandoned, feeling frightened, and in severe cases panic (palpitations, shortness of breath, feeling unwell). Thinking about these things all day is enough, but I don’t dare to verify my doubts and solve problems. The more I think about it, the more anxious I become. People with separation anxiety will suffer from poor sleep, overeating, passiveness, and blame at every turn. They feel that they must not be able to do anything well and escape from reality, which will ultimately affect work efficiency and life, and start a vicious cycle. If the person with separation anxiety is in love, all anxiety will be concentrated on the lover, expecting the lover to help him deal with all the anxiety,
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